*Warning is that this is a sensitive subject and may cause triggers in some of you*
Believe it or not, sex isn’t just about procreation or abuse of energy. We just need to understand our libido, organs and the root chakra to enable us to form healthy sexual desires and heal on a emotional/mental and energetic point.
Celibacy is meant to be the most spiritual route to take but if you have your desires and wants under control, you don’t need it. Celibacy in people who do not need to take this route can actually be causing them harm and the inbalances can manifest in various ways. In a sexual way, because rather than facing your sexual energy, you are avoiding it (ie, running in fear), you may be boxed in with it so a good person becomes a monster. This is factual in evidence. For example – A young boy, abused sexually, joins the priesthood and finds shelter and a false sense of transcendence, but over the years is eventually ‘boxed in’ by his inbalances until they overcome him and he himself becomes a child-molesting priest, preying on the very people who he is meant to protect.
So anyway, back on to how sex can heal you.
The language of sexual energy is not a lot different that the language of digestion. We can have a large appetite or a small one. We enjoy partaking of some things more than others. Some people eat loads, some peck like birds. Some folks like spicy foods, others prefer bland. On the other side of digestion, some people tend towards constipation, and others towards diarrhea. We know we are healthy when we are balanced – not too much one way or the other. This is the key to having a healthy outlook on sex as a whole – moderation. If you ate without chewing, you would be hungry all the time because you aren’t feeding your body or your brain with what it needs, you are simply swallowing food and shitting it out. If you chewed the food, you won’t be so hungry and will enjoy it more. Same applies to sex. Quality is better than quantity. You won’t get hungry for more sex if you took your time to enjoy it, rather than banging for the sake of busting your nut (same applies to women!).
One way to see if you are balanced is ask yourself how you view food and then ask the same for your genitals. Any bets, one will be off and the other will be balanced or both may be off.
Believe it or not, the sacral chakra (2nd) has nothing to do with your sexual energy. Nope! That’s to do with your view on sexuality and healthy relations on a emotional level…noithing to do with the primal sexual energy on a physical level which is a ROOT chakra thing (1st). So in order to heal oneself is by realising where your inbalances are on a 1st and 2nd chakra level and incorporating that in to your sexual activities. You may end up just transcending into a natural state of celibacy (yogi/guru status) when you are fully balanced and have no shames or bad feelings regarding sex (shame, gulit etc). This includes being a human bike to being scared of sex.
To have healthy, healing sex that will balance out the emotional, mental, spiritual and physical body is to be balanced with your root first and foremost. Go from the root to the heart and let the energy shoot upwards.
One way to balance out the sexual energy is to have tantric sex. This is sex without penetration. It’s slow and sacred, with an emphasis on the body-mind-soul connection rather than tease-me, please-me techniques. Then the real sex can happen and you can achieve a high bliss and learn to push the energy up and down your chakra system, energizing your own body rather than feeling drained.
With a balanced, healthy view on sex, you can achieve things people only dream of. A faster connection to Self, a clearer path to the Creator, healing your body from the inside, fixing damaged emotional or mental bodies, a greater understanding on your needs and wants, a greater understanding of others, a ‘X-ray’ look at how each of our different bodies operate and much more!
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